When you think about it, freedom is not an easy fruit to pluck from a low hanging branch. We all seem to be interested and yearn for the elusive freedom from the rat race. Most of us spend our lives yearning but not quite having the courage to “break free”. The rat race most certainly offers many tempting traps to ensure one stays locked in for life until we believe “it’s the right and responsible thing to do”. So we proceed to build titles and status structures that are quite meaningless in time but extremely meaningful within the rat race life-world. We create these artificial structures to soothe our subconscious yearning for freedom until the little voice within us grows quiet amidst the noise and hustle of rat race life. We have all heard about long-term prisoners fearing the day that they are set free. Ring a bell?
Everything we do has a price. If we decide to bail out of our mundane job we lose our income and therewith the ability to pay our mortgage, access to acquire material goods, our standing in society, etc. On the other hand maintaining this routine boredom does have a price. That price may be stress, ill-health, loss of friendship, loss of opportunity to pursue one’s own lucrative business, loss of emotional and financial fulfillment, etc.
So many times I have heard that stock markets are driven by fear and greed. Is this correct or is it really the behavior we choose to resort to in order to survive and feed our rat race life. Does fear and greed behaviour not extend far beyond the stock market? For sure we find this in the workplace where power is used to feed a toxic leader’s agenda.
There seems to be an intricate intertwining between our egos and fear and greed. Maybe I’ll elaborate on this another time or leave it to the psychologists to unpack.
We see it in areas beyond the workplace too. In charitable organizations managed by people who hold positions of status during the 9-5 stint and have used their position to leverage a similar title after hours, displaying the same type of behaviour. As long as I have the title and the privileged parking bay, life has meaning!
Ask yourself what is it that you would like to change and then determine what the price of being free is. Do you need to sell your house to settle debt? Are you prepared to do this and face the possible ridicule of family and acquaintances? Is the ego being threatened and stifling the opportunity to break free from the debt trap?
Everything has a price. Ask yourself “what am I getting for the price I pay?”
Here is a free e-book recording life in US federal government written by someone who spent 30 years there. It ends :
Finally, my last day. I started it as I have for the last thirty-one years, five months, and four days. I went through my daily routine of resetting the snooze button, taking a shower, drinking coffee, and listening to the news while putting on makeup. There will be no farewell party. My route out of the building will not be lined with government employees weeping softly and bidding me a fond farewell. Parting is not sweet sorrow. It is pure happiness.
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